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Gratitude and Contentment

So many of us fall into the trap of waiting and wanting, We tell ourselves we’ll feel more content when life slows down. When the kids are older. When the house is finished. When we make just a little more money. But the truth is, there will always be something else on the horizon. If we tie our peace to future circumstances, we’ll never quite arrive. Contentment can’t live in the when. It lives in the now. Choosing to be content today doesn’t mean life is perfect. It means we’re learning to notice what’s already good. A quiet moment with a hot cup of coffee. A warm breeze through an open window. A messy home filled with laughter. These ordinary moments are often where the extraordinary happens—if we’re paying attention. Let’s stop postponing peace. Let’s stop believing that joy is something just around the corner. Instead, let’s practice being fully present and deeply grateful right here, right now. Try this: At the end of today, write down three simple things that broug...

Choosing Contentment – A Simpler, Fuller Life

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We live in a world that constantly urges us to strive for more—more success, more stuff, more sparkle. And yet, even as we chase those things, true peace can feel further and further away. Contentment, on the other hand, offers a quieter, deeper kind of joy. It’s the feeling of enough. Of resting in the present. Of letting go of the endless “what’s next?” Contentment is not about giving up or settling. It’s about shifting your focus from what’s missing to what’s already here. It’s noticing the beauty in the everyday. It’s making peace with imperfection, and trusting that you don’t need to add more to your life to feel whole. I used to think contentment would come when everything finally fell into place. But I’ve learned it comes when I stop trying to force things into place. It grows when I appreciate my life as it is, not as I wish it would be. This week, I invite you to pause and reflect: When was the last time you felt truly content—not excited, not entertained, not productiv...

Time to Rethink Your Shoe Collection

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When was the last time you took a good, honest look at your shoe collection? Today, let’s take a moment to really consider what’s sitting in your closet — and why it’s still there. How many pairs do you actually have? And how many do you  truly love ? It’s easy to hold on to shoes for the wrong reasons. Maybe they were expensive. Maybe they were a gift. Maybe they  almost  work with an outfit you never wear. Or maybe they’re just so worn down, you haven’t had the heart (or time) to let them go. But here’s the truth: those aren’t good reasons to keep something. Your wardrobe should serve you, not weigh you down. And that’s especially true for shoes — the hardworking foundation of every outfit. You deserve to love each pair you put on your feet. Not just tolerate them. Not just “make them work.”  Love them. So today, do a quick audit. Toss the too-tight flats. Donate the trendy heels that never made it out of the house. Say goodbye to the sneakers that have seen better...

How much food do we really need?

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  When was the last time you really looked—and I mean really looked—inside your fridge and pantry? Take a moment today to check. How much food are you storing? Is it more than two or three days’ worth? With grocery stores around every corner and delivery services bringing ingredients to our doorsteps in hours (sometimes minutes!), it’s worth asking: Why are we stockpiling so much food at home? Many of us have overflowing shelves and crowded refrigerators, not out of need, but habit. We buy in bulk, pick up “just a few things” every time we shop, and hold onto food just in case. But all of this adds up—not just in dollars, but in waste. Reducing the amount of food we keep at home can be incredibly freeing. Less to manage. Less to clean. Less to throw away when things inevitably expire. When you keep only what you truly need for a few days, meals become simpler, fresher, and more intentional. You’re less likely to overeat or fall into mindless snacking. In fact, you may ev...

Feel Great!

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  One of the most powerful lessons we can learn—and pass on to our children—is that our lives should be filled with things we truly love. Not items that are “good enough,” not gifts we feel guilty about donating, and not clothes that simply still fit. If it doesn’t make you feel good, if it doesn’t add beauty or function with intention, it’s time to let it go. There’s no reason to hang on to old dishes that never see the light of day or clothes that make you feel less than amazing. Life is happening now. Don’t wait for a special occasion to use your favorite plate or wear that beautiful sweater. Use your best every day. You deserve that kind of care. Choose quality over quantity. Invest in pieces that make you feel confident, elegant, and joyful. One of my favorite sayings is: “If you don’t own frumpy clothes, you’ll never look frumpy.” It’s simple and true—and something I hope my children carry with them as they grow. Surround yourself with beauty, ease, and authenticity. ...

Fresh Air!

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Finding Joy in Less: Why Camping Is the Reset We All Need In a world buzzing with notifications, packed schedules, and constant comparison, it’s easy to forget what truly matters. But there’s something about stepping into the outdoors — even just your own backyard — that reminds us how little we actually need to feel content. Earlier this summer, my husband and I popped up a tent in our backyard. We had full access to the comforts of home just steps away, but something surprising happened: our kids didn’t want to go inside. They were completely swept up in the adventure of it all — reading by flashlight, roasting marshmallows over a fire, and making do with what they had right there outside. It turned into one of the most memorable weekends of our summer. No screens, no packed schedules — just a simple tent, the fresh air, and each other. Camping, whether deep in the woods or just a few feet from your back door, gives us that rare chance to strip away the noise. When we trade in...

Earthy

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There’s a deep sense of peace that comes with embracing a minimalist lifestyle. Less clutter. Fewer distractions. More space—physically, mentally, and emotionally. It’s no surprise that so many people find themselves happier when they begin to simplify their lives. But while minimalism can help us feel more calm and content, there’s an even bigger reason to embrace it: The Earth needs us to. 🌎🌱 Every choice we make—what we buy, how much we consume, how we live—has a ripple effect on the planet. The fast fashion, the overflowing landfills, the disposable culture—it’s all taking a toll. And while none of us can fix everything, each of us has the power to make better choices. Minimalism is not about depriving ourselves. It’s about being more intentional. Buying less, but choosing well. Living lighter, but with greater purpose. Owning fewer things, but loving them more. There’s a beautiful old saying: “We do not inherit the Earth from our ancestors; we borrow it from our children.” And i...

Only the Best

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In a world that often celebrates more, faster, and cheaper, there’s something quietly powerful about choosing less- yet better. From clothes to food, furniture to shoes, there’s real value in investing in fewer high-quality items that are made to last. We’re not just talking about luxury for luxury’s sake. We’re talking about craftsmanship, durability, and the kind of things that actually get better with time. A well-made pair of boots that molds to your feet over the years. A vintage table that tells stories through its grains and scratches. A wardrobe of dresses that fit just right and still look beautiful season after season. When you buy something of quality, you’re not just making a purchase—you’re making a commitment. You’re choosing to surround yourself with things that support your lifestyle, not clutter it. You’re saying no to fast fashion and yes to timeless style. And perhaps most importantly, you’re contributing to a more sustainable world by consuming less and valuing more...

The Uniform

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Several years ago, Silicon Valley sparked a movement that quietly caught fire around the world. Icons like Steve Jobs and Mark Zuckerberg became known for wearing the same outfits day after day. It wasn’t laziness; it was intention. By reducing decision fatigue and focusing on what truly mattered, they discovered the power of simplicity. And now, more and more of us are realizing that a minimalist wardrobe can bring peace, clarity, and comfort to our daily lives. Imagine opening your closet and knowing that every piece inside fits well, makes you feel good, and works with the rest. No more shuffling through items you haven’t worn in years or wrestling with choices that don’t quite feel right. The goal? A core wardrobe of just 10 versatile pieces per season—intentionally selected, loved, and worn on repeat. The key to success with this approach is knowing your personal style and leaning into it. For me, that means dresses- all year round. I love how easy, flattering, and put-together I ...

Recycle, Reuse, Reduce

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How is the purging going?  Drop a comment and let me know how many things are out of your house after making your number, Today is recycle, garbage, and donation day for me- I love the feeling of letting go of the excess.  ðŸ˜Š Let’s talk about the three R’s ♻️ Likely, your doing well recycling- at the very minimum returning bottles and cans as well as plastic bags.  We all must do our part to recycle some of our waste. You are probably reusing a lot of your items- hopefully wearing your clothes and shoes over and over again, donating all items in good condition you are not using.  Utilizing reusable tote bags and finding new uses for a variety of things in your home.  I applaud you for all of your efforts, it would be much easier to do nothing. The R I’m hoping to focus on, the one that doesn’t receive enough attention is Reducing.  Buying less, storing less and maintaining less.  Did you know there is a generation that could tell you exactly which toys...

Here We Go

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Now that you have a space in mind and an idea of how great it will look, let’s put a number on it. A few years ago on New Years Day, I decided to set a goal for the year of reducing 100 products from my bathroom.  The easiest way to track this was a piece of paper and pen kept right in my bathroom drawer.  I wrote the number 100 on the top.  The first time I threw out a product, I crossed out 100 and wrote 99 next to it.  I found myself enjoying the purges and brought the numbers down very quickly.  At the end of the year, I did a final purge to reach 0.  I had made it and it felt great! 100 bathroom products out over a year- I told you I was surrounded by clutter!   The purges were fun, but my strict no buying bathroom products rule for the year was very difficult for me.  Even with so much surrounding me, there was still a pull to buy new.   Gifts were the only thing I allowed coming into the bathroom.  I found myself cherishing the sw...

Minimalism

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I love the word “Minimalism”! Once one lives a life of less- of simplicity and peace, it is very difficult to return to the other side. I want this for you! I’ve spent most of my life collecting way too many things and being quite the opposite of a minimalist.  I feel fortunate to know both sides of these worlds.   My journey to less started slowly.  I spent a great deal of time seeing and knowing my lifestyle was too cluttered, crowded and unnecessarily weighed down.  There was a deep desire to change my habits and home, but I continuously took the wrong approach. I’ve always loved organizing.  I wound literally organize racks of underwear at department stores while I waited for my mother and sisters to try on clothes and check out.  It has always been so satisfying to me to see things in neat lines- sorted by color, shape and size.  So, this is where I began.  I would empty cluttered bathroom drawers and cabinets and take to organizing.  I ...